Topless Girls & Women
Topless Is Nudist
AT LEAST IN THE STATES IT IS.
At a workshop recently (Tulum) we discussed "first times" (speaking of our "communal" experiences with nudity and girls) and how they impacted our later lives. We were instructed to speak freely, and to use their first names (it's more empowering that way). I gamely said, "The first time I was exposed to a girl's nudity it was her breasts and I was thirteen, and her name was Patty, of Pompano Beach, Florida.
"She did that little gesture with her shoulders girls do to
loosen the tension on the straps,
and off it came"
We were making-out in that awkward, thirteen-year-old way on the beach, hundreds of yards from anyone else, and I felt the urge to feel her breasts. I tugged at her bikini top, she did that little gesture with her shoulders girls do to loosen the tension on the straps, and off it came. They were well developed, and she gasped when I cupped them in my hands. I'll never forget the experience."
You can see how quickly these forum chats can turn into purple prose. Nonetheless, bringing these experiences to light reminds us of how "intimate" breasts truly are, and that exposing them is a big deal, for both boy and girl.
Baring Their Breasts Is A Big Deal
I later learned that girls are most insecure about 1) their breasts and 2) how their nether regions look (the variety is enormous, isn't it?). When they option for viewing either facet of their physicality, they're really putting themselves on the edges of their self-esteem.
Of course they needn't worry, but it lends import to the weight of - and speaking particularly of American girls - the transactions engaged in their minds when they decide to bare their breasts. You notice it with first-timers, especially on beaches in Europe. Here the fresh young Chicago coed sees the French women baring their breasts and thinks, OMG, then, very gamely, why not? It sparks the thirteen-year-old boy in me every time.
As with hunger, one is never completely sated for long. The idea of hitting another topless or nude beach is always apetizing. In truth it never becomes a "been there, done that." Sun Galleries: The Topless Sun